A self-described recovering perfectionist, Dr. Shai Butler, author of "Better. Not Perfect-From Hot Mess To Life Success" is leading a movement of women who are learning to give the same grace to themselves that they so freely give to others.
Dr. Shai L. Butler's "Better - NOT Perfect: From Hot Mess to Life Success"
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